I realise that every
woman wants different things out of life. This article doesn't imply that some
women aren't ambitious enough. It provides a general overview of certain goals
a 21st century woman in Nigeria wants to achieve by the age of 25.
Also, the word "ambitious" here is used loosely and the points mentioned in this article incorporate personal, career and other objectives of a wide range of women from different socio-cultural backgrounds and with different experiences.
Also, the word "ambitious" here is used loosely and the points mentioned in this article incorporate personal, career and other objectives of a wide range of women from different socio-cultural backgrounds and with different experiences.
I've used the age of 25
because I think 25 is the age where a woman becomes even more self-aware, such
that she should ask questions about how much progress she has made with
achieving her life's goals.
Now, over to the crux of
the matter:
1. A good university
degree.
Acquiring a university
degree is a no-brainer for an ambitious woman. However, I don't think anyone
would intentionally want to spend four to five years in the university and
graduate with a third class or a pass. We know mistakes and other things happen
but generally, we would aim for a second class upper degree at least.
2. A good masters degree.
In these days and times,
almost everyone I know has gone ahead to acquire a masters degree from a
university in the UK. The job market is competitive and no ambitious woman
wants to be left out.
3. A good job.
What a good job is, is
relative. It depends on the employee. But we all want that don't we?
4. A good husband.
This is Africa. By the
time we graduate from the university, our parents are already thinking husband. I think while going the route
of a successful career, a woman should also consider building a successful
home.
5. An association of good
friends.
Someone said that
lifetime friends are usually made in secondary/high school. While it might be
true, I don't think it's exclusive. I have good friends I made in the
university and during my national service year; some of which have turned
sisters.
6. A "clean"
car.
Who doesn't?
7. A "world
tour".
OK, maybe not a world
tour in the sense of it, but a trip out of town or out of the country for
whatever reason - a vacation, sight-seeing, an event, etc.
8. Good money in the
bank.
This point speaks for
itself.
While it's possible to
have achieved all these by the age of 25, the other issue is with "today's Nigeria"...
If your dreams haven't
come through and you're beyond that age you had planned them for, it's ok, it
doesn't mean they wouldn't in the near future. We're in this together!
This
list might be incomplete, so please leave your contributions in the comment
box. Thank you!
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